She kind of hurt my feelings because I liked her alot, never noticed the other side, Jake said it's been there for a while. She is 10 years younger than me, Jake is 6 years younger than I am, but I don't understand why her hubby allows it. I don't think he is iterested in me like she is Jake. He seems nice but not 'too nice'.
I do know some seniors out here are or were swingers ,some passed but it didn't bother me long as they didn't expect us to join in.
I did pull ones shirt back down about 15 yr;s ago when she pulled up her blouse and her hubby jumped up and started unzipping his pants, said lets get naked and get in the pool. told her no thanks, so they never mentioned it again, we were friends till she passed a couple years ago.